Thursday, March 10, 2011

I Quit...Or Do I?

I started working a second job.  I thought it was a gift from God until I got sick and realized that I had to work five days per week in addition to my other full time job.  Then, I thought maybe God was tryna tell me something.  I didn't go back to work the first week after I accepted the job.  I didn't call.  I ignored their phone calls.  But, one day I was sitting on the side of my bed and I inadvertantly answered the phone thinking it was my daughter and it was THEM! (That was the following week after I tried to just leave without telling them).
 
When I answered the phone, I let the administrator con me into coming in the following day.  I rode with one of the nurses to some patient's houses.  She was real good at what she did.  I was kind of enthusiastic and was going to quit my other job.  Then, I asked the secretary for the health insurance prices.  That kind of put the stops on stuff. It didn't stop there.  That Friday, I came down with a stomach flu...a nasal infection ensued and I ended up calling out of my weekend job the entire weekend because I was sick. As much as I hate going to the doctor, I went to the doctor and a got a note for work and some antibiotics.

I started taking the antibiotics and began to feel better but I have this lingering malaise.  I wasn't supposed to go to work until Friday but decided that I would go on Tuesday after resting on Monday.   I ended up getting a traffic ticket for running a stop sign at the end of the day and having this disturbing fatigue. Not only that, I had to finish my paperwork after I got home which I did not want to do because I wanted to lie down. And...what good was that? None.  I spent the time talking to and joking with Karyn and deciding that I was going to quit.  My original plan was to go into the office early in the morning and leave my stuff. I ended up oversleeping.

So, I went into the office to talk to the administrator so that I could give her the courtesy of knowing that I wasn't coming back.  It was hard for me to do that.  I felt so sad.  I really wanted to do that job and quit my other job but could not afford the health insurance there. I liked everybody in the office too. They were cool!
But, I confessed to my boss that I did not want to nurse anymore.  Not feeling remorseful, but incredibly sad.
I have lost my spark.  I think that after doing something for 29 years, you would be tired as hell.

I didn't love myself when I began nursing.  Now that I love myself my tolerance for  nursing has decreased.  I realize that caring for others was a way of vicariously loving myself...Hmm.

























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